When You Fall In Love, Don’t Explain It, Let Love Invade You
I love you and I don’t know the reason, nor do I know from when or until when, but I know that I feel free, that I am myself and I am happy, that every day I draw smiles. You let me fly, you make me dream. With you I want to share happy or sad, exciting or boring moments, I want to see how life flows, I want love to invade me.
We have all felt this way at times, and out of fear, we have asked ourselves a thousand questions: Why does he like me? Why do you want me? How is the relationship going to be? We will discuss? What do I do if he leaves me?
Love is a risk
Whenever we fall in love, we run a risk. It is a risk that scares us, but we must not allow doubts or concerns to invade our minds and prevent us from enjoying the moment. The uncertainty that the other person will not feel the same or abandon us, is something that must be faced with great courage.
If you don’t live in the moment, if you don’t risk feeling something for someone, you will never know what it is like to be in the clouds, to smile all the time, to make love, to feel the passion. There is no guarantee that it will turn out well, or that it will last more or less, or that the other person will feel the same, but it is worth it.
What happens when you fall in love
When you fall in love, you will feel that the world is different, that your body is different and that everything moves at a different pace. There are some reactions or signs that indicate that we are falling in love or that we have already fallen in love, and they are the following:
You idealize the other person
Many times we see in the other person what we want to see, perhaps what we lack or what we want. With the passage of time , a disappointment can occur, when the person we thought we saw does not really exist, is different and, therefore, we do not feel the same about them.
It may also happen that we see that person in a much more rational way, just as he is, and we like him, so that the relationship is more realistic.
You are afraid of being rejected
We are all afraid of being rejected, but if we don’t try we will never know what will happen. Reciprocity in love is very complicated, because many factors influence, there are times that it is not the right time, there are times that it is not the right person, there are times that you run away just out of fear.
Fear is the reflection of our instinct for protection, it is normal for it to accompany us, but it must have limits, it is important that we establish how far it can go, so that it does not paralyze us.
Your body reacts
Our behavior towards someone we like, puts us in evidence. We look without realizing that person, how he moves, how he talks, how he dresses. We feel invaded by a great emotion every time we see that person, it is something that you feel in your chest, that overwhelms you. We feel awkward, we blush.
Close your eyes and let love invade you …
Getting carried away by feelings is an extraordinary sensation. It is important to live in the present, not to think about the future, which is always uncertain, but about the here and now. The psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi has developed the concept of “flow”, which symbolizes a state in which we focus on the activity we are developing and enjoy it.
To do this, we must fully concentrate on the activity we are doing, as if we were losing track of space and time. Therefore, enjoy your present, what you feel in this moment, do not worry about how you will feel tomorrow, because you do not know and thinking about that uncertainty prevents you from seeing this wonderful moment.
But never forget that love does not imply suffering, it is not necessary to suffer for love. Love is to enjoy it, to live it, to be happy and content, to have fun and experience different sensations. Do you dare to fall in love?
