I Love Feeling People Who Do Not Divorce Reason And Emotion
Eduardo Galeano used to say that “the language that tells the truth is the language of feeling” and that the best people are those who are capable of thinking by feeling and feeling by thinking.
This led him to affirm that “I like feeling people who do not separate reason from heart. That feels and thinks at the same time. Without divorcing the head from the body, nor the emotion of reason ”.
No matter how hard we try, we act with the heart following the logic of our mind and vice versa. We are a whole, we think and feel at the same time and this is how we approach reality.
Managing what we feel is essential to remember what we deserve
Feeling Thinking is how we relate to love, to friendship, to disappointments, to joys, to our angels and to our demons. We cannot tear ourselves apart or divorce our senses from our thoughts.
When we find ourselves in a complicated relationship, we cannot try to guide ourselves only by what we feel. Sometimes we have to put part of what we feel aside to value more what we deserve.
Thoughtful sensitivity, the basis of empathy
There are people with more or less emotional sensitivity; Regarding this, there are those who think and act according to the belief that in today’s world if you are sensitive and listen to your emotions, circumstances will devour you.
That is why it is necessary to reflect, because in order to feel alive and flow at the same time, it is essential to think and feel. How are we going to raise our children prioritizing logic? How can we love if we give more importance to reason?
It seems that highlighting reason over emotion is a sign of strength and that our emotions and sensitivity are signs of weakness and weakness. Nothing is further from reality, the combination of both is what really makes us great.
A feeling-thinking person is a balanced person who offers others confidence, good intentions, emotional intelligence, power and strength to spread their wings and unleash their purposes.
Thoughtful people are the ones who best understand the importance of small details when it comes to getting around the world. They understand better that our life is meaningless without the ties that bind us and that make us respect each other.
Celebrating the wedding of reason and heart is the basis of our well-being
We must thank the time that he has shown us that good things come at any time, sometimes hand in hand with our feelings and sometimes embracing our reason.
Hence, it is so important that we do not divorce the logic of emotions, since both are needed to understand the world and what happens to us, as well as to make decisions.
Our mind is a feeling mind that collaborates with our environment and that tries to coordinate at every moment to connect with others and make each relationship more satisfactory. However, we don’t always know how to balance the scales.
A good social brain is one that balances its relationships based on a feeling language that balances reason and emotion, since neither is better, worse or superior, but they need to be. Without emotional sensitivity we cannot understand a world built on the basis of reason or vice versa.
And who does not think this, perhaps it is that he has not yet been born; because really thinking without feeling (or vice versa) is seeing without seeing, listening without listening, loving without loving and living without living. And this is as impossible as the existence of a correct and sincere smile without a feeling of true joy.
